Value for Tuesday of Week 16 in the season of Sowing

Encouraging – Offering Reassurance

A boost of encouragement can make the difference between action and inaction, or a poor outcome versus a good outcome, or a good outcome versus a great outcome.

  • When my mother or my grandmother tried to keep me from climbing too high, my grandfather would say, “Let the kid walk on the wall. He’s got to learn to do things for himself.” I loved my grandfather for trusting me so much. His name was Fred McFeely. No wonder I included a lively, elderly delivery man in our television “neighborhood” whom we named “Mr. McFeely.” [Fred Rogers]
  • Instruction does much, but encouragement everything. [Johann Wolfgang von Goethe]
  • For whatever reason, I didn’t succumb to the stereotype that science wasn’t for girls. I got encouragement from my parents. I never ran into a teacher or a counselor who told me that science was for boys. A lot of my friends did. [attributed to Sally Ride]
  • . . . humans need encouragement like a plant needs water. [Rudolf Dreikurs]

Encouragement happens when a respected person nudges someone to step forward, step up, or otherwise act. “. . . encouragement is the process of facilitating the development of a person’s inner resources and courage toward positive movement . . .” Encouragement inspires hope, builds courage, and gives support.

The Academic Encouragement Scale (AES) evaluates academic encouragement received from someone whom the student respects.” “Previous studies have found a correlation between academic encouragement and academic self-efficacy . . . In academic settings, encouragement may be more useful to students. Students who are encouraged may increase their academic performance and motivation . . . A study has found that academic encouragement from others is beneficial in enhancing individuals’ social connections to improve their self-efficacy . . .”

Verbal encouragement (VE) is considered as external motivation . . .” It “can be used to enhance performance in several sports . . .” “. . . verbal encouragement has the potential to improve performance. This is one of the strategies that a sports psychologist could advocate in mental training programme.” It seems to be of special interest in sports performance. It is also “commonly used to encourage patients to perform to their maximum potential during exercise sessions or for various assessment procedures.

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

As Jean Valjean cares for and teaches Cosette, he receives encouragement from her. Chronolically, she is a child and he is an adult, but within they are both children. Encouragement takes many forms.

To teach Cosette to read, and to let her play, this constituted nearly the whole of Jean Valjean's existence. And then he talked of her mother, and he made her pray.  She called him _father_, and knew no other name for him.  He passed hours in watching her dressing and undressing her doll, and in listening to her prattle. Life, henceforth, appeared to him to be full of interest; men seemed to him good and just; he no longer reproached any one in thought; he saw no reason why he should not live to be a very old man, now that this child loved him. He saw a whole future stretching out before him, illuminated by Cosette as by a charming light. The best of us are not exempt from egotistical thoughts. At times, he reflected with a sort of joy that she would be ugly.  This is only a personal opinion; but, to utter our whole thought, at the point where Jean Valjean had arrived when he began to love Cosette, it is by no means clear to us that he did not need this encouragement in order that he might persevere in well-doing. He had just viewed the malice of men and the misery of society under a new aspect--incomplete aspects, which unfortunately only exhibited one side of the truth, the fate of woman as summed up in Fantine, and public authority as personified in Javert. He had returned to prison, this time for having done right; he had quaffed fresh bitterness; disgust and lassitude were overpowering him; even the memory of the Bishop probably suffered a temporary eclipse, though sure to reappear later on luminous and triumphant; but, after all, that sacred memory was growing dim. Who knows whether Jean Valjean had not been on the eve of growing discouraged and of falling once more? He loved and grew strong again. Alas! he walked with no less indecision than Cosette. He protected her, and she strengthened him. Thanks to him, she could walk through life; thanks to her, he could continue in virtue. He was that child's stay, and she was his prop. Oh, unfathomable and divine mystery of the balances of destiny! [Victor Hugo, Les Miserables (1862), Volume II – Cosette; Book Foruth – The Gorgeau Hovel, Chapter III, “Two Misfortunes Make One Piece of Good Fortune”.]

Novels:

Poetry

Air from another life and time and place, / Pale blue heavenly air is supporting / A white wing beating high against the breeze,
And yes, it is a kite! As when one afternoon / All of us there trooped out / Among the briar hedges and stripped thorn,
I take my stand again, halt opposite / Anahorish Hill to scan the blue, / Back in that field to launch our long-tailed comet.
And now it hovers, tugs, veers, dives askew, /
Lifts itself, goes with the wind until / It rises to loud cheers from us below.
Rises, and my hand is like a spindle / Unspooling, the kite a thin-stemmed flower / Climbing and carrying, carrying farther, higher
The longing in the breast and planted feet / And gazing face and heart of the kite flier / Until string breaks and—separate, elate—
The kite takes off, itself alone, a windfall.

[Seamus Heaney, A Kite for Aibhin]

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Two of Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart’s late-period piano concerti adopt reassurance as their dominant or concluding theme, usually presenting a conflict or concern in the first two movements, then resolving the matter most affirmatively in the concluding movement.

In these works, the leading clarinet evokes a loving and encouraging parent, perhaps teaching a child to ride a bicycle:

Other compositions:

In the jazz duo of Binker and Moses, the drummer or the reed player spurs on the action, with a lift from the other. “Saxophonist Binker Golding and drummer Moses Boyd channel a sound as expansive as it is fierce, sculpting lightning-fast runs and whirling rhythms into vast, shapeshifting landscapes. They have recorded several albums, and have performed live at the Boiler Room in 2016, at the Jazz Festival in Saalfelden,  Austria in 2019, and at Jazz Re:Freshed in 2020. 

Louis Prima was a singer, trumpeter, songwriter and bandleader, who rose to fame in the 1930s. His singing sounds like an attempted copy of Louis Armstrong’s, in keeping with Prima’s musical beginnings with a New Orleans-style jazz band. Prima changed his style several times over the next several decades, apparently in response to changing trends in popular music; but his upbeat swing of the 1930s was a tonic that lifted spirits during those years of the Great Deprssion. His playlists are substantial, and his best work may have been with fellow trumpeter Wingy Malone, available in two collections, volume 1 and volume 2. 

Other albums:

Music: songs and other short pieces

Self-encouragement

Encouraging others:

Visual Arts

  • Wassily Kandinsky, Upward (1929)

Film and Stage

This Is Our Story

A religion of values and Ethics, driven by love and compassion, informed by science and reason.

PART ONE: OUR STORY

First ingredient: Distinctions. What is the core and essence of being human? What is contentment, or kindliness, or Love? What is gentleness, or service, or enthusiasm, or courage? If you follow the links, you see at a glance what these concepts mean.

PART TWO: ANALYSIS

This site would be incomplete without an analytical framework. After you have digested a few of the examples, feel free to explore the ideas behind the model. I would be remiss if I did not give credit to my inspiration for this work: the Human Faith Project of Calvin Chatlos, M.D. His demonstration of a model for Human Faith began my exploration of this subject matter.

A RELIGION OF VALUES

A baby first begins to learn about the world by experiencing it. A room may be warm or cool. The baby learns that distinction. As a toddler, the child may strike her head with a rag doll, and see that it is soft; then strike her head with a wooden block, and see that it is hard. Love is a distinction: she loves me, or she doesn’t love me. This is true of every human value:

justice, humility, wisdom, courage . . . every single one of them.

This site is dedicated to exploring those distinctions. It is based on a model of values that you can read about on the “About” page. However, the best way to learn about what is in here is the same as the baby’s way of learning about the world: open the pages, and see what happens.

ants organic action machines

Octavio Ocampo, Forever Always

Jacek Yerka, House over the Waterfall

Norman Rockwell, Carefree Days Ahead

WHAT YOU WILL SEE HERE

When you open tiostest.wpengine.com, you will see a human value identified at the top of the page. The value changes daily. These values are designed to follow the seasons of the year.

You will also see an overview of the value, or subject for the day, and then two columns of materials.

The left-side column presents true narratives, which include biographies, memoirs, histories, documentary films and the like; and also technical and analytical writings.

The right-side columns presents the work of the human imagination: fictional novels and stories, music, visual art, poetry and fictional film.

Each entry is presented to help identify the value. Open some of the links and experience our human story, again. It belongs to us all, and each of us is a part of it.

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