Value for Sunday of Week 43 in the season of Assessing

Being Self-actualized

Being self-actualized – being all that we can be and are best suited to be – is a measure of living ethically. It is one way of looking at the supreme aim of living.

  • A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write, if he is to be at peace with himself. What a man can be, he must be. [Abraham Maslow, “A Theory of Human Motivation”.]
  • Man’s main task in life is to give birth to himself, to become what he potentially is. [attributed to Erich Fromm]
  • Find out who you are and do it on purpose. [Dolly Parton]

Abraham Maslow, father of self-actualization theory, described it thus: “Self-actualizing people learn through the processes of intrinsic learning. Self-actualizing people are described as those who listen to their own voices, take responsibility, are honest, and who work. They are involved in a cause outside of themselves. They experience fully, vividly, and selflessly with full concentration and absorption. All the various choice points presented to them, they make the choice for growth.” “Self-actualization is not an endpoint or a destination. It is an ongoing process in which people continue to stretch themselves and achieve new heights of well-being, creativity, and fulfillment.”

Practically any aspect of self-improvement can be seen as a part of self-actualization. A “30-item ‘Characteristics of Self-Actualization Scale (CSAS)’” has been developed. Research on the subject includes studies of the following:

Self-actualization is one of three domains on a “Spiritual Health Scale”. It promotes and enhances:

“Maslow’s theory of self-actualization is synonymous with seminal psychological, philosophical, and religious theories that support the noble human transition from self-indulgence to selflessness and altruism.” Self-actualization theory can be seen as an outgrowth of having faith in humanity.

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

Poetry

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Though naturally shy and introverted, Ella Fitzgerald is widely considered to be the quintessential jazz singer. She mastered her culture's chief musical form, putting her own spin on it with her technique of scat singing. “She could sing sultry ballads, sweet jazz and imitate every instrument in an orchestra.” In realizing her full potential, she set the standard for others. . Here are links to her releases, playlists, her songbook recordings, live recordings, a biography film, and documentary films. Live appearances include:

In the same vein is Jazzmeia Horn, with a style similar to Ella Fitzgerald’s. Here are links to her playlists. Her albums include “Dear Love” (2021) (62’), with her Noble Force. Live appearances include:

Ambrose Akinmurise is a jazz trumpeter who plays with quiet self-assurance, in a strong, confident voice, without being showy or overbearing. “Motivated primarily by the spiritual and practical value of art, Akinmusire wants to remove the wall of erudition surrounding his music. He aspires to create richly textured emotional landscapes that tell the stories of the community, record the time, and change the standard.” He gives plenty of room for other voices to speak with him, or while he remains silent. Here is a link to his playlists.

Robert Schumann, Kreisleriana, Phantasien für das Pianoforte, Op. 16 (1838) (approx. 27-34’) (list of recorded performances), consists of eight fantasies for solo piano. Schumann said that he composed it in only four days, perhaps when he was at the height of his romantic attraction to Clara Wieck, a top concert pianist and composer in her own right, who would become his wife. Of the work, Clara wrote in a letter to Robert: “Sometimes your music actually frightens me, and I wonder: is it really true that the creator of such things is going to be my husband?” The work is a tour de force of artistic brilliance, both in its technical mastery and in its emotional range. Here are performances by Cortot in 1935, Argerich in 1983, Horowitz in 1986, Lupu in 1993, Pollini in 2001, Buchanan in 2005, Biss in 2006, Grosvenor in 2023, Grimaud in 2023, Neumann in 2023, Schleissman in 2024, and Giacometti in 2025.

Howard Hanson’s piano works:

Other works:

Albums:

Music: songs and other short pieces

Visual Arts

Film and Stage

This Is Our Story

A religion of values and Ethics, driven by love and compassion, informed by science and reason.

PART ONE: OUR STORY

First ingredient: Distinctions. What is the core and essence of being human? What is contentment, or kindliness, or Love? What is gentleness, or service, or enthusiasm, or courage? If you follow the links, you see at a glance what these concepts mean.

PART TWO: ANALYSIS

This site would be incomplete without an analytical framework. After you have digested a few of the examples, feel free to explore the ideas behind the model. I would be remiss if I did not give credit to my inspiration for this work: the Human Faith Project of Calvin Chatlos, M.D. His demonstration of a model for Human Faith began my exploration of this subject matter.

A RELIGION OF VALUES

A baby first begins to learn about the world by experiencing it. A room may be warm or cool. The baby learns that distinction. As a toddler, the child may strike her head with a rag doll, and see that it is soft; then strike her head with a wooden block, and see that it is hard. Love is a distinction: she loves me, or she doesn’t love me. This is true of every human value:

justice, humility, wisdom, courage . . . every single one of them.

This site is dedicated to exploring those distinctions. It is based on a model of values that you can read about on the “About” page. However, the best way to learn about what is in here is the same as the baby’s way of learning about the world: open the pages, and see what happens.

ants organic action machines

Octavio Ocampo, Forever Always

Jacek Yerka, House over the Waterfall

Norman Rockwell, Carefree Days Ahead

WHAT YOU WILL SEE HERE

When you open tiostest.wpengine.com, you will see a human value identified at the top of the page. The value changes daily. These values are designed to follow the seasons of the year.

You will also see an overview of the value, or subject for the day, and then two columns of materials.

The left-side column presents true narratives, which include biographies, memoirs, histories, documentary films and the like; and also technical and analytical writings.

The right-side columns presents the work of the human imagination: fictional novels and stories, music, visual art, poetry and fictional film.

Each entry is presented to help identify the value. Open some of the links and experience our human story, again. It belongs to us all, and each of us is a part of it.

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