Sometimes, we need to be protected. Sometimes, our job is to protect others from harm. I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection. [Sigmund Freud] We ... Read More about Protecting
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Guiding
To guide, to teach, to re-direct, to discipline – these may not be as satisfying emotionally as comforting but when properly done, they are essential. Children require guidance and sympathy far ... Read More about Guiding
Comforting
When we are weary and feeling small, or down and troubled, we may crave comfort. When you’re weary, feelin’ small, When tears are in your eyes, I will dry them all. [Paul Simon, “Bridge Over ... Read More about Comforting
Cultivating and Nurturing Self-Worth
How do we feel about ourselves, think of ourselves, and express our self-image in action? That is the essence of self-worth. We need a solid foundation in self-worth to be of use to ourselves and ... Read More about Cultivating and Nurturing Self-Worth
Being Optimistic
Optimism is an attitude that accompanies hope. When we practice and cultivate being optimistic, we poise ourselves to act on our dreams. “Optimism is expecting good things to occur in your life.” ... Read More about Being Optimistic
Resilience
By nature, humans are resilient. This is a great asset in every season. “Resilience can be defined as the process of adapting well and even growing in the face of adversity, stress, or trauma . . ... Read More about Resilience
Keeping Eyes On the Prize
We further empower ourselves by identifying our goals clearly, and focusing on them. People may have goals but if they are scattered in their intention, those goals will be harder to realize. Keeping ... Read More about Keeping Eyes On the Prize
Being Resolute
Not merely to dream but as the poet wrote, to hold fast to our dreams – then we can begin to empower ourselves. We need hope and optimism, sometimes, when external forces have control over the ... Read More about Being Resolute
Developing and Pursuing Dreams and Goals
When we hope, we can dream, and set goals; then, the lives we desire begin to come into focus. Hold fast to dreamsFor if dreams dieLife is a broken-winged birdThat cannot fly.Hold fast to dreamsFor ... Read More about Developing and Pursuing Dreams and Goals