Value for Monday of Week 41 in the season of Assessing

Taking Comfort from Home

Memories of home can bring great comfort.

  • Home is the nicest word there is. [source unclear]
  • Home isn’t a place, it’s a feeling. [attributed to Cecelia Ahern]
  • When I go home, it’s an easy way to be grounded. You learn to realize what truly matters. [attributed toTony Stewart]

Was home a place of solace and comfort? Do thoughts of home comfort us now? This is a state to which we aspire.

For some of us, the answer to these questions is yes. Like John Denver, I am a country boy, at least by background, having grown up on a dairy farm in Michigan, a mile from Saginaw Bay, the son of two of the sincerest people I have ever met. John Denver’s country music album “Back Home Again” captures that spirit, especially for someone like me who grew up in the country. Its images are so powerful that I chose my son’s name as a reflection of the experience I had growing up, and my wish for my son to have memories like that. The night Matthew was born, I told my parents, who were staying with us, why we had chosen that name; I never saw such a look in their eyes as I saw that night.

That joy has returned to me as a parent. When our daughter was preparing for a trip back to Michigan – a place she only visited on holidays – she posted John Denver’s “Country Roads” on her Facebook page. (A memory of returning home one Thanksgiving with that song on the car radio remains vivid today. It was playing just as I approached the dirt road where my parents’ home was. Crops had been harvested from the fields, and there stood our house, just like always.)

Not everyone is as lucky as I was. But then, we can choose what to make of our past. My hope for everyone is that you will know the sense of homely comfort I have known.

Real

True Narratives

How people create their home environments - how we decorate our homes and how we eat - is a living narrative about the comforts of home.

Technical and Analytical Readings

Photographs

Documentary and Educational Films

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

Novels:

Poetry

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Albums:

The soothing sounds of the African stringed instrument, the kora, meld with Djeli Moussa Diawara’s plaintive tenor to evoke gentle images of Africa. Here are links to his playlists, and some videos. 

Compositions:

From the dark side:

  • The piano pieces that comprise Michael Finnissy’s English Country-Tunes (1977) (approx. 50-53’) are not the idyllic works the title suggests. On the contrary, Finnissy draws his title from the first syllable of the word “country,” as it is pronounced. The work reflects the composer’s ambivalence toward his native England, particularly its attitudes toward sexuality.

Music: songs and other short pieces

Visual Arts

Film and Stage

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